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My Specialist Areas
Estrangement, ghosting, narcissistic abuse, parenting, family patterns, trauma, relationships, neurodiversity.
My Approach
Many of us learn very early to hide parts of ourselves, to stay close to the people we need, and to carry on. This can work for a long time, until it doesn’t. Perhaps a relationship has broken down, someone in your family has pulled away, or you are tired of being who everyone expects you to be. Nothing is wrong with you. Your pain makes sense when we look at what you have lived through. If this is you, I would be glad to hear your story.
Here, you can slow down and listen to what your story and your body are telling you, without being judged or rushed. Clients describe me as warm, down-to-earth and authentic, and I meet you as I am: honest, present and grounded, with room for the spiritual side of life if that matters to you.
My approach is integrative/relational and trauma-informed, drawing on person-centred, psychodynamic and systemic ways of working. Together we look at how early relationships and family patterns shape you today, and how old hurt and stress can live in the body as well as the mind.
I know the pain of family estrangement and the hope of reconciliation from my own life. If someone close to you has cut you off, ghosted you or made you doubt yourself, or if you are a parent struggling with your children, I understand. I also support people who have lived with narcissistic behaviour.
I bring over 20 years’ experience as a Family Constellations facilitator, one-to-one and in groups, with consistently positive feedback. A problem that looks personal often belongs to a wider family story. Seeing that can bring relief and, over time, real change.
I have worked successfully with many neurodiverse clients, and my practice is LGBTQ+ and neurodiversity inclusive. Adults with any life struggle, relationship difficulty, or wish for deeper self-understanding are welcome.
Training & Qualifications
- Integrative Relational Counselling, CPTA (BACP approved)
- OTS-Oxford Therapy Centre (Diamond Model of Relational Modalities)
- Trauma training with Morit Heitzler
- Group Facilitation and Life Coaching, Klaus Frey (Germany)
- Family Constellations with acclaimed teachers
- Shadow Work, Nir Esterman; Bio-energetic Bodywork, Joern Moerck
Registered Bodies
- MBACP, on the BACP Register
- ISCA Member (International Systemic Constellations Association)
My Services
- One-off 50-minute “Get Unstuck” sessions
A space for support, clarity, and reconnecting with your inner wisdom.
Available online or in person - Integrative Therapy (short- or long-term)
Weekly sessions, tailored to your needs.
Available online or in person - 1:1 Family Constellations
2–3 hour deep-dive sessions.
Available online or in person - Family Constellations Workshops
Held at a beautiful private venue in Headington, Oxford (near Brookes University), and in other locations by invitation.
If you can gather at least 6 participants, I’d be delighted to facilitate a workshop for your group. The organiser receives a complimentary place.
Here you find my fees.
Please click here if you want to book a workshop or course with me.
Contact me if you’d like to book a free 10 to 15-minute discovery chat with me.
“Silvia is an excellent coach; I’ve worked with her on a range of issues over the last 18 months and always felt well supported. She knows how to challenge my thinking and has clearly studied many different aspects of identity that play into personal challenges. She is unfailingly positive and present in our sessions and knows how to use constellations to great effect. I’ve also been to her workshops and found them enjoyable and enlightening.”
Duncan (Coach)
“Silvia is a strong safe facilitator. If you are curious about what makes your family the way it is, give it a try. Be ready to be astonished by the power of the work.“
Louise Ordish (Counsellor)
“Silvia’s guidance and the whole embodied component of the constellations practice really helped me understand and engage with the issues at hand. It was time and money well spent, and I am enormously grateful for the expert way in which Silvia sensitively guided the session so that it maximised insights and maintained safety.“
Fiona
“Silvia held the workshop with extraordinary competence and compassion.“
Mayyasa Malazi
“Silvia is an absolutely fantastic coach. She has got not only the passion for her work but also a very deep understanding of the human soul and mind as well as the dependence between these two. Her work combines all that is needed for personal growth, the healing process, and solving issues. She uses her wide psychological knowledge and different therapeutic techniques, always correctly chosen, with a deep understanding of the nature of your problem and the desired goal of where you want to be, who you want to be, and what relationship you want to have with other people. Simply saying, balance and harmony are brought through her work.
If you are looking for somebody who will understand, listen, and help you to solve problems, dilemmas, and issues – you are definitely in good hands. I have been working with Silvia for over two years. Participated in her workshops, private sessions, and family constellations, and I am recommending Silvia’s work and services with full confidence.” (Aleksandra, client)
“Many perspectives and new angles and new knowledge. Thank you to Silvia and all participants. Silvia is an awesome facilitator; she held, I think, a sacred space, a time zone that was timeless. The participants were so nourished with safety and security and presence that we could manifest what was needed for all of us as a collective group. I am overwhelmed with new wisdom to help myself and my own family now journey on. With gratitude to Silvia and all the wonderful participants who were so beautifully authentic. I feel blessed and would like to do more work with Silvia.” (Ann-Marie, Client)
